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Let’s face it—stress is a fact of life. There will always be things to worry about, stuff to do and problems to solve.

But what happens when the stress just keeps building? Or when, sometimes for no reason at all, we start to have a difficult time managing our stressors? That’s when stress stops being “part of life” and turns into something that can control our lives and impact our happiness, our relationships and even our health.

Part of life is learning that we simply can’t control everything that happens. That’s why the way we cope—aka the way we deal with stress—makes a big difference. On the flip side, sometimes there are stressors we should be able to manage effectively but don’t. Maybe we’re in a difficult period, or there are bigger things impacting the way we roll with the small stuff.

No matter what kind of stress we’re experiencing, the better we can learn to cope in a healthy way, the more successfully we’ll be able to manage. So as some food for thought, here are 10 healthy ways to cope with stress that we should all consider practicing in our daily lives.

1. Socialize. Social support plays a critical role in managing stress and promoting overall mental health. When we connect with others, it helps us feel understood and less isolated. Social support helps you deal with daily stressors and can even help people recover from traumatic experiences.
    
2. Avoid the vicious cycle. Sometimes when we’re stressed, it’s tempting to cope in ways that deep down, we know are unhealthy and will ultimately make us feel worse. Maybe we isolate ourselves, avoid responsibilities or seek comfort in food or substances. Recognizing these patterns and choosing healthier alternatives can help us feel empowered. When we take control of the situations we can manage, it makes us feel more equipped to deal with whatever life is throwing our way.
    
3. Take care of your health. Stress can wreak havoc on our well-being without us even realizing it. For example, it can lead to poor sleep and can encourage us to make poor food choices. Chronic stress can even lead to high levels of cholesterol! That’s why preventing and managing stress is so beneficial for our health, both in the short and the long term. It’s also a two-way street: Getting more sleep, eating better and doing our best to make healthy decisions during stressful periods can go a long way toward helping us stay clear-headed and resilient.
    
4. Get more exercise. The last thing you want to do when you’re stressed is beat yourself up for not being physically active. But, that might also be the best time to start! Exercise releases endorphins, which are natural mood boosters and stress fighters. Going for a walk, hopping on the treadmill or hitting the gym could be a recipe for feeling better instantly. Plus, as you develop an exercise habit, the pride and sense of accomplishment you’ll feel can boost your mood even more.  
    
5. Make time for you. Life is full of personal responsibilities, decisions, things to do and people to please. And in a way that’s a good thing—we’d probably get pretty bored otherwise. Still, it’s important from time to time to think of you and to spend time doing the things you enjoy. Even if that’s just relaxing! Whether it’s trying a new hobby, taking a relaxing bubble bath or reading a book, take a timeout every now and again to take care of you, and see your stress levels fall.
    
6. Practice deep breathing. It's easy to overlook, but how we breathe can significantly impact our stress levels. When we're stressed, our breathing can become shallow and quick. This can lead to a vicious cycle where our bodies feel more stressed because they think there's a threat. By practicing deep, slow breathing, we can help break this cycle. Deep breathing sends a message to our brains to calm down and relax. Plus, it's a tool that's always with us, no matter where we are or what we're doing. So, the next time you're feeling stressed, take a moment to focus on your breathing.
    
7. Spend time outside. Nature has a unique way of calming our minds and refreshing our spirits. The beauty of the natural world, the fresh air, the sunshine—all these elements can help reduce feelings of stress and promote relaxation. Whether it's going for a walk in the park, hiking in the woods or simply sitting in a garden, spending time outside can provide a much-needed break from our hectic lives. So the next time you're feeling overwhelmed, try stepping outside and soaking in the tranquility of nature.
    
8. Practice gratitude. It's easy to focus on the negative aspects of our lives, especially when we're feeling stressed. But practicing gratitude can shift our perspectives and help us appreciate the positive things we often take for granted. Whether it's writing in a gratitude journal, thanking someone for their kindness or simply taking a moment each day to reflect on what you're thankful for, practicing gratitude can enhance mood, reduce stress and promote a more positive life outlook. Remember, even in the midst of stress and chaos, there's always a reason to be grateful.
    
9. Embrace mindfulness. Mindfulness is the practice of staying fully present and engaged in the current moment. It's about observing your experiences without judgment. When we're stressed, we often worry about the future or ruminate on the past. By practicing mindfulness, we can reduce these stress-inducing thoughts and focus on what's happening right now. This can be as simple as paying attention to your breathing, noticing the sensation of your feet touching the ground or savoring the taste of your food.
    
10. Speak to a counselor or therapist. If stress becomes overwhelming and difficult to manage on your own, don't hesitate to seek professional help. Therapists and counselors are trained to help you understand and navigate your feelings. They can provide you with new coping strategies and tools to manage stress. Remember, seeking help is not a sign of weakness but a proactive step toward your mental health and well-being.

Stress is a normal part of life. But if we don’t make a conscious decision to control our stress, it can quickly control us instead. The next time you feel stress start to get the better of you, we hope you’ll be inspired to try some of the healthy coping strategies from this list. You’ve got this!